Yesterday was the first day of me watching my grandma B. for the next week and a half while my parents are out of town. It's so weird to have the roles reversed and have me being the caregiver now instead of her. So considering that, today I will post about times when my grandma (and grandpa) have taken care of me.
Memory 1:
When I was maybe 10 or so, I (along with Shelly) stayed with G & G B for a few days in Salina. I rememeber going to the store to buy some pajamas because we had forgotten ours. I ended up getting a peach nightgown with Barbies on it. I also remember that my G & G would take us around town, proud to show off the grandkids.
Memory 2:
When I was a teenager, about 16 or so, Shelly and I stayed with G & G overnight for a couple of nights. Grandma seemed to be strict, and I didn't seem to enjoy it that much. Grandma has never been one to heat up her house by baking during a summer day. She has never been very fond of messes either. I remember wanting to bake something, maybe cookies or brownies, and she wouldn't allow it because the whole house would have gotten hot. It makes sense now. They had no air conditioning in the house, and it could get in the high 90s in their town. I also wanted to make red Kool-Aid. Grandma was very particular and fussy about me needing to be careful so a mess wasn't made. I think it was a hard visit because I realized there was nothing to do in such a small town and I missed the rest of my family. I know grandma tried her best to keep us happy and take care of us.
Memory 3:
Whenever Grandma has known that we were coming to town, she'd always have her traditional pistachio salad and macaroni salad ready for us to eat. She even did it when she knew we were coming two summers ago. Whenever it would be time to leave her house, she'd offer to make sandwiches for us to take with us on our way.
Memory 4:
Grandma would also provide money (it may have only been one dollar) for a trip to the 5 & 10 so we could buy candy to rot our teeth out. When I've visited since I've been married, she's always insisted on giving a $20 bill for gas, just to help out.
Memory 5:
Grandma was a true homemaker. She would can delish veggies from her garden. She would share the "fruits of her labor" and always send home canned green beans and tomato juice. She was also an avid house cleaner. When we'd visit when we were younger, she would always sneak in and make our beds, cleaning up after us. When she visited my house (shortly after Grandpa died), she tried to help with the cleaning. I found her down on her hands and knees mopping my floor one day.
I'm grateful that I've had grandparents who have cared about me. It's a little challenging, but I'm grateful for this opportunity to get to take care of my grandma. It's providing good opportunites for me and the kids to build memories of her.

Spencer and his snowboarding instructor











